[xena]

Tonight my town had a pet memorial vigil. There were only a few people there, but it helped to talk about our pets who are gone. I came home and found myself sobbing uncontrollably over Kitty, when I thought I had cried all the tears I had for her. All I want to do is go back in time to when she was alive. It's so hard to accept that I will never see her again. When does this go away?

[Dr.D]

How nice that there was a vigil. It is such a thoughtful thing for the city to do.

I wish I could tell you that the pain fades quickly. Unfortunately, it takes a while for the hurt to subside. It hasn't been very long since Kitty passed on. Give it more time and make yourself remember the good times with her.

((((((hugs))))))

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[blumist]

Hi Xena,

That pain you are feeling, really doesn't go away. We learn to cope with it a little better each day.

I have many pets who have crossed over. One thing I had to do each time was to go to the shelter and adopt another pet. I find it keeps your mind off your sadness and what more can we ask for, than that unconditional love of a pet.

I would adopt as soon as possible.

[xena]

Thanks- I miss Kitty every day, but I have adopted a new little kitten, who is the sweetest thing! I love her, but will never forget my Kitty.

[blumist]

Hi Xena,

I am so happy that you adopted a new kitten.

I am sure the kitten will give you all the unconditional love that it has to give.

God Bless you and your kitten.

[cemeteria]

HI Xena!

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I just lost my best friend of 21 years on August 3. If you need someone to talk and relate to, feel free to PM me anytime.