I don't mind anything about this forum. Both of you have been great, and I have enjoyed reading both of your posts. You can learn new things everyday...no matter what the forum. I am just thankful both of you respond to my concerns. Please keep it up! Anyway...the fish are still fine! And, I finally found a couple of female Chipokaes. They are my FAVS!

Eric I am sorry if I offended you with my controversial messages.

I am glad that we were able to help you. If you have any more questions, please ask and somebody will help you.

to fight over who knows more stuff about fish or who's answer sounds more professional.
It isn't a contest noire shall we say one person is better at the hobby then the other!

It is the correct information provided that help's the newbie to advance in there hobby of this beautiful species.
In my opinion everyone is +equal+

Lets leave it that way [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif[/img]

Jay

thecichlid.b0x.com

And also remember guys what works for me might not necessarily work for you and the other way around. This is a hobby that there is always a different way to do things and one way is not always the only way.

So always listen to what other people have to say and even long time fish keepers can learn a thing or two from newbies.

bye the way nice to see you again Jay WHAZUP!!




[This message has been edited by damerf28 (edited April 21, 2001).]

WAsaBiE!

I wouldn't have even posted a reply about "spike" if I was trying to show off. Newbie or Moderator it's irrelevant. I have some tanks that people always go off about. And, also doubt you can tell a person's "know-all" on-line. I was looking for piece of mind, or (at least) commisaration about similar experience. The only thing I care about is my fish...and further, the only chat room I yap in - is this one. I am happy for the advise, and if that makes somebody smug. "Good for you...you obviously engage in this banter for different reasons than I do." Somonas, you didn't offend me. In fact, I like your user name...reminds me of my foolish methodolology about my new tank. You (AND JIM) eased my mind about something that I care "entirely too much" about. AGAIN, if that makes you laugh>>>Good. I care about my fish...not about making allies on the computer. If in the process i get to know someone...so be it. I care about my Malawis...PERIOD!!!

You know, I thought I was wrong once.... But I made a mistake. [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif[/img] Oh, if only everyone could be perfect like....... me??? Twila, it's important that you interject here with that wonderful gift of diplomacy you have. [img]/infopop/emoticons/icon_smile.gif[/img] This forum has given me more helpful info than all the info I have ever gathered from my LFS's. Please all, don't be offended when I say that I love you all in Jesus' Name. ><}}}}}'>

all of you are happy and enjoy coming here for answers.
Somonas, there's no need for you to apologize you did nothing wrong and a lot of people here agree with me..Both Somonas and Jim give great advice,,,Let that be that..